Sunday, July 15, 2018

Liturgy of the Ordinary

I've been thinking about how to make my Christian faith a more organic, integrated part of my day to day life.  I'm doing okay on things like regular church attendance and regular quiet times, but even if those things are done with 100% faithfulness, they still just make up a small fraction of time in my week.  If my faith is the most important thing to me, it deserves more time and attention.  But how does that work out practically, with the demands of life?  With jobs and kids and household chores, not to mention the daily Facebook scrolling?  It already feels like a fight to carve out the fraction of time that's devoted to God.

I was looking for ideas along the ideas of Brother Lawrence's wonderful classic "The Practice of the Presence of God".  His idea is that you DO continue to go about your life - you peel potatoes, you wash dishes - and you stay in community with God at the same time.  I love this idea, and I was eager to find a book that fleshed out this idea as applied to modern life.  I found this book, and remarkably, it is also thoughtful, well written, funny, and steeped in good theology.  (And it will make you want to become an Anglican!  I am not currently Anglican, but I have a lot of love and respect for Anglicans.)  The book is called "Liturgy of the Ordinary: Sacred Practices in Everyday Life" by Tish Harrison Warren.

Warren takes eleven moments out of an ordinary day - things like brushing your teeth, losing your keys, checking email - and combines them with eleven spiritual practices in Christian life.  This sounds gimmicky, and in the wrong hands it certainly could be, but in this book it is SO well done.  (It's worth noting that The Gospel Coalition and Sarah Bessey both agree with my enthusiastic endorsement, so this book has a broad range of support in the Christian community.)  The idea is that there are reminders of God working in the world and working his redemption in us constantly, every day, in the most mundane moments, and she illuminates some of the ways we can watch for this and be blessed (or be challenged to grow) as we go about our lives.

Some highlights (these are just a few examples, as every chapter had great stuff; and these just give you an idea of the content, it's her fleshing out of the ideas that makes this book special):
  • Losing your keys - this chapter was linked to confession, and the idea was that how you respond to the little irritations of life is a good barometer of where your heart is at.  Often we think of confession in relation to bigger things, but there are little moments every day where we lose our cool, or act selfishly, and the opportunity here is to notice this happening, and take the opportunity to confess and receive forgiveness and acceptance.  
  • Calling a Friend - this chapter is linked to being in Christian community and gives a robust argument for being involved in a local church.  
  • Eating Leftovers - this chapter was linked to both Communion and reading the Bible.  She talks about how you need to eat over and over, and while the vast majority of your meals will be very ordinary and forgettable, you absolutely need them to bring you life.  And that the type of food you eat can bring more or less health over time.  
  • Fighting with My Husband - she links this with Passing the Peace, and writes about how the bulk of the "loving others" command in the Bible involves loving your family and closest friends well - and this is often the very hardest thing to do.  
  • There is lots of value given to enjoying the pleasures of life, and sleep linked to Sabbath - I loved these ideas.

Also, she concludes her Acknowledgments section with my favorite sentence that I have ever seen and probably ever will see in an Acknowledgments section:  "And glory be to the Word, from whom any goodness in our little words flows, and by whom they will be redeemed."

This is a book I will return to again and again, and  I hope I have convinced at least a few of you to check it out.  It's that rare gem that is thoughtful and deep, but also very easy to read and applicable to real life.





Wednesday, July 4, 2018

America: Remembering the Good while Taking on the Bad

The week of Independence Day always makes me reflect on the state of things in America.  Like many, there are so many changes I would like to see.  Just to name a few:

  • I would love to see changes in policy and law around guns, mental health, abortion, and immigration.  
  • I would love to see more money go towards public education and public health insurance, enabling meaningful reforms. 
  • I would love it if the population of our country was kinder and more empathetic, more thoughtful and less reactive, more solution-oriented rather than polarized.  I would love it if *I* was more of all the good things and less of all the bad things.
  • I agree with the movements  #FamiliesBelongTogether and  #BlackLivesMatter and would like to see progress made on these fronts.
But.  I think it's also important to remember all the GOOD we have in America.  Again, just to name a few (and the disclaimer that I'm not saying there are zero problems in these areas):

  • I can put up Facebook posts about all the things the government is getting wrong and not have someone show up at my door and arrest me.  I can call a Congressman directly and tell him I don't like how he voted on an issue, and he'll write me a letter thanking me for my opinion. 
  • I can assemble with my fellow Christians at our house of worship or at a barbeque and no one tries to stop us.
  • We have a safety net to help people meet survival needs.  
  • Because many of us have our survival needs met, we are able to think about things besides just how to survive, like how to make our country better for all people.  
  • The law enforcement agents and courts don't take bribes, and they don't work only for the rich.  Violent crimes are prosecuted.  
  • We have free public education guaranteed for everyone, and we have many of the finest universities in the world.
  • Libraries!!
  • Our health care system can take on extremely complex problems and save many lives that couldn't be saved at any other time or place in history.  (But when the bill comes, I'll boot that up to the list of challenges above.)
  • Our tech innovators are coming up with amazing solutions to make life better and to solve some of the world's most pressing problems.
  • We have spectacular natural features, and parks that are dedicated to preserving this nature.
  • We have time and public spaces for leisure activities.

I write both of these lists because I think it's so easy for all of us, myself included, to drift into thinking either that America is *all* bad or it's *all* good.  It's hard to hold simultaneous mental space for both the blessings and the challenges.  But I think both are really important - remembering the good keeps us grateful for what we have, and remembering the bad motivates us to be better. 

Happy birthday, America!  I'm grateful to live in this country, grateful that we have the freedoms to fight to make it better, and hope to see positive change as time marches on.