Saturday, July 27, 2024

Day 20: Teacher

The teacher I'm grateful for today is my high school English teacher, Mrs. Vandervoort.  There are several facets to what I am grateful for about her.

First, she taught us to be technically proficient writers.  She demanded excellence in everything: our sentence structure and word choice, the coherence and organization of our essay as a whole, and the content of the ideas we wrote about.  The amount of feedback she gave in grading each and every essay was miles beyond the norm, and it included both encouragement and constructive criticism.  I was worried when I went to college that I wouldn't be at the same level as my peers, many of whom had attended the fanciest private high schools in the country, but thanks largely to this class, I was completely prepared as a writer for college.

Second, she loved books and taught us to love books as well. I've been a pretty voracious reader ever since elementary school, but she helped introduce us to new authors (Tom Robbins sticks in my mind), and she helped us see new levels of depth and symbolism and beauty in classic works (there was a Hamlet character wheel I particularly remember doing, where we made a visual representation of how a character's strengths and weaknesses can be flip sides of the same character trait). These first two things - learning to read and write well - are the main things you hope an English teacher will provide, and she completely delivered on these.

In reading these first two paragraphs, you might get the impression of a teacher who was strict, by the book, and no fun.  But the defining characteristics of Queen Vee, even more than her rigor, were her wild creativity and her generous kindness.  Two examples of this:

1. The walls of her classroom were covered with aluminum foil, and on this aluminum foil was written the name of every student in every class - except that their name had been turned into a word.  So my name might have been something like "Erinessence" or "Erindipity" - and she did that for each of the 100+ students.  It made you feel special and valued to find your name, while also incorporating a love of words and the sense of the playfulness that you can bring to writing - first you learn the rules, and then you can learn when and how to break them.

2. Every time we turned in a paper, we had a Paper turning in ceremony.  Leading up to this day, we had worked hard - studying a book in detail, writing drafts of the paper, workshopping the drafts with other students in the class, going over it with a fine tooth comb.  She understood that putting all this work into something and then handing it in to be evaluated and judged was stressful.  So on the turn in day, she dimmed the lights and lit candles; played the Beatles' song "Let it Be"; and I think there was a magic wand and crown involved.  She was helping us learn that while there's a time to work your tail off, there's also a time to see that the project is done and release your worries. 

I'm so grateful for this teacher who contained multitudes, and who conveyed these things to her students - caring and warmth, rigor and technical proficiency, fun and creativity, and a love for reading and writing.

Friday, July 26, 2024

Day 19: Book


 The book I'm grateful for is the Psalms.  This book of poetry in the middle of the Bible will meet you wherever you are.  It has songs of rejoicing and Thanksgiving; celebrating how nature testifies to God; remembering the goodness of God.  

But what I've really found comfort in during harder times is how many of the Psalms show you how to come to God with anger, sadness, confusion, and desperation.  It shows that these emotions are an expected part of life, and it guides us how to get through them spiritually.  

I'm so grateful for this book that's been with me through the ups and downs of life.

Tuesday, July 23, 2024

Day 18: Moment


I'm grateful for the moment at breakfast when the kids answer their daily "Would you rather?" question. It's so fun to watch their personalities come out as they gravitate towards different answers, or to listen to them reason through different possible scenarios, or to try to find loopholes beyond what was explicitly presented like they're practicing law. It's fun to get to live for a few minutes in the expansive, imaginative mind of kids.  And I'm grateful that even as we have a teenager and almost teenager, they're still willing to humor me and participate in these kind of conversations.

Monday, July 22, 2024

Day 17: Learning Experience


I'm grateful for the learning experience that I didn't know homeschool would be.  As I've mentioned on this blog before, we lean heavily on the Charlotte Mason method of homeschooling, which means that for many of our subjects, we read aloud together and then discuss.  I'm learning facts about the Middle Ages and human anatomy and physiology; about the people we cover in biographies and the states we studied in geography; and I'm getting to experience along with the kids, new literature that I didn't read myself as a kid.  This is a hugely enjoyable part of homeschool for me, and I'm so grateful for it.

Sunday, July 21, 2024

Day 16: A Hobby that Refreshes You


The hobby that I'm grateful for is running. And for today's post, I'm specifically thankful for the mental health benefits that running provides. Aside from prayer, that's nothing that can clear my head and flip my mood like a good run. If I'm feeling stress or nervous energy or frustration, running provides an outlet in which to funnel all that negativity. If I need to work through a problem or process an emotion, running provides the quiet and space for that, and clears away some of the fog and distraction that otherwise tends to linger around the brain. If I'm feeling sluggish, counterintuitively, going for a run often provides a boost of energy. I'm grateful for the mental and emotional boost I get from running. 

Thursday, July 18, 2024

Day 15: Non-Profit Charity

My legal career seems to gravitate towards non-profit employers, and today, I am grateful for Northern Nevada Legal Aid, and for Legal Aids in general.  My job is to represent abused and neglected kids.  Other lawyers in our group represent other categories of people who are vulnerable and need legal representation, but will not be able to pay for it.  

I am so grateful that in our country, through a combination of public and private funds, we have deemed this a worthy cause to put money towards.  I see every day what difference it can make to provide a free lawyer to a person who is marginalized in society, in a difficult situation, and without a voice within the court system.  Thanks to Legal Aid, and thanks to those who fund it, our clients have someone in their corner who can tell judges what they need and who can file papers on their behalf.  I think we (myself included) take things like this for granted in the United States, but this isn't the case in most times and places in history.  I'm grateful that we live in a time and place that prioritizes funding legal services for the most vulnerable. 

Sunday, July 14, 2024

Day 14: Hometown

I've written multiple times about how much I love Reno and Nebraska, but I don't think I've ever written a gratitude post about my actual birth place, which is Sacramento.  We live just two hours away from Sacramento now, so we've had reason to go there for all sorts of different things - doctor's appointments, concerts, school field trips, a fun day trip - enough that I have ample material to write a gratitude post.

Sacramento is an underrated gem of a city.  It's populated enough to boast big city amenities like nice restaurants, big concerts, and an NBA team.  But it's small enough that it doesn't feel so intimidating to get around.  Traffic is nothing like Southern California.  There are many nice nature spots nearby, not to mention the Sierra Nevadas immediately to the East.  We travel to Sacramento every couple years to enjoy the zoo or a concert, or to attend a medical appointment that's not available in Reno, or just to get more of a big city feel but in a very easy to access way.  I'm grateful for these cities that combine the virtues of big city life and a smaller town, and I'm grateful that Sacramento is available nearby for us to enjoy often.


Thursday, July 11, 2024

Day 13: Season


The season I'm grateful for is summer Olympics season.  As this worldwide athletic competition approaches, I'm so excited for the two weeks that feature the athletic events that rarely appear on TV - field and track, indoor and outdoor volleyball, gymnastics, swimming, and all the others.  I'm grateful that these amazing athletes get to take center stage every four years.  I'm grateful for the beaty of these sports, and the excellence and tenacity and perseverance and spirit of these Olympic athletes. I'm grateful that we get to see people from all over the globe come together.  

I will also add a little post script that I'm grateful for winter Olympics season as well, especially now that we live in Reno and do some winter sports -- but nothing beats the summer Olympics.

Tuesday, July 9, 2024

Day 12: Favorite Time of Day

 The time of day I'm most grateful for in the summer is undoubtedly the afterglow.  When the sun has set but it's still a little bit light out, and the sky is changing colors by the minute, all of it looking like a painting that should be featured in an art museum.  The air is cooling, the world is quieter.  Bats might be out gathering insects, fireflies might twinkle.  The stars appear, one by one, slowly and then a whole sky full.  The world feels magical.