Day 27: About your Job

The main thing I'm grateful for about my job is the kids I get to form relationships with and the chance to try to guide their case towards the best possible outcome; additionally, I'm grateful for this, this, this, and this. 

But one not insignificant thing I don't think I've written about before is that I'm grateful for the work-life balance provided by this job. It helps that I'm part time (which is both a blessing and a curse, something I'll write about at a future time), but one of the huge huge benefits of non-profit legal work is that you can have a real, full caseload, makes a real life difference practice that is also usually contained to Monday through Friday 8-5 (and for me, about half of that contained within those hours). It's not never that I have to work nights and weekends, but it's exceedingly rare and it's usually because I've used the regular work hours towards something other than work. My job is an important part of my life, but it's not my whole life - and that's not the case for all lawyers. I'm grateful to be able to do the work I do and still have a meaningful amount of hours off the clock. 

Day 26: Who In Your Life

 

I am grateful for my sister. I'm super grateful for who she is as a person, but for today, I want to focus on the specialness of the sibling / sister relationship in general. I am grateful for the almost entire lifetime of shared history we have - shared family past, shared secret jokes, shared moves, shared clothes; shared family / life stages, shared faith, shared interests in reading, shared things we find hilarious. There is a way she understands me and I understand her that no one else will be able to ever touch, which is such a special thing. I'm so grateful to have a sister, to have THIS sister.

Day 25: About Nature

 

I am grateful for clouds. I am grateful for how much drama they bring into a moment. I'm grateful for how you can imagine shapes into puffy cumulus clouds. I'm grateful for the reminder of God's power in a huge wall cloud moving over the Midwest prairie. On road trips, my kids will sometimes try to give the sky Myers-Briggs personality types, and I'm grateful that clouds give the sky so much personality that this is a plausible game. 

Day 24: Challenge

This has been a year of many challenges, one serious thing after another, and if I'm being perfectly honest I can't say I'm grateful for any of the challenges. I thought about writing something along the lines of "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger", and it will be wonderful if that turns out to be a result ten years down the road, but that's not where I'm at today. There are two things I can honestly say I'm grateful for right at this moment: 1) When you get through a thing you think you could not survive and you do, that is knowledge to take forward when the next scary thing comes along. 2) It's been a year of chances to see that God's mercies are new every morning; to grow dependence on God and understanding that He is the only sure and steady anchor for my soul; and to take the grip of control I try to keep on my life and try to give it more and more over to God. To the extent that all the things in that second category take hold, I am immensely grateful for that.

Day 23: Smell

 I am grateful for the ways smells can trigger memories and feelings. Both generally and very specifically. Baking chocolate chip cookies remind me of safety, warmth, home, and childhood. A particular perfume smell reminds me of my Grandma Eileen. The smell of campfire smoke brings memories of happy times singing, roasting S'mores, and hanging out around the campfire. A fish / ocean smell reminds me of the Oregon beach. I am also grateful for a book I read this summer - Jitterbug Perfume - that celebrates all things related to the olfactory sense. 

Day 22: About Your Parents

 

I am grateful for so many things about my parents. For my mom, I'm grateful for how she role modeled so many things for me: how to earn an education and work a career that you're proud of while also being an involved mother of multiple kids; how to take care of yourself by eating healthy, exercising, reading lots of books, and regularly tending to your faith life; how to laugh; and how to treat people with kindness. For my dad, I'm grateful for how he taught us the fundamentals of so many sports, he taught me to care about the details and to finish strong, and he also role modeled how to balance being involved with your family while managing a demanding career, and how to live a life of strong faith. For both of my parents, I'm grateful that they have always been there for us and always encouraged us; always treated us fairly and kindly; that they both continue to be among the very most important relationships in my life; have shown what a long and happy marriage looks like; and have always loved us so well. I am so grateful for my parents.

Day 21: About your Partner

 

Kenny and I celebrated our 20 year wedding anniversary this May, so this year I am grateful for our long shared history. I am grateful that we have this rich bank of memories, starting from our first dates and continuing on through engagement and wedding, first law jobs, having children, and moving around the country. We have weathered many hospitalizations, enjoyed many vacations, and learned together how to parent toddlers and now teenagers. There are so many memories that live in both of our heads but that no one else (except, often, the kids) also shares. It's an amazing thing, to build that kind of treasure trove of memories together, and I'm grateful for it.